If you have never utilized sex toys before, it can be intriguing, enticing, intimidating and even scary all at the same time. There are numerous devices that available to meet your needs from mild to wild ones. Sex toys are able to increase the level of intimacy and closeness in your relationship and they offer you the advantage of knowing that you are capable of giving your partner intense orgasms. They also provide you with the opportunity to make your relationship grow by being able to talk about sex and what is important to you concerning it. If you can talk honestly and openly about sex, you can do almost anything. Do not let this opportunity pass you by. Below are some tips to help you explore the possibility of utilizing sex toys with you partner:
Consult a reputable sex toy dealer
A sex toy dealer will make you feel a lot more comfortable and answer your questions honestly so that you do not feel intimidated or embarrassed. You can get them through physical stores, websites and through the home party system. A dealer is equipped with knowledge concerning different items, and he or she will assist you to choose the best sex toy for you.
Start with something that is not intimidating. You can make use of some sensual products such as massage products, edible lotions or feathers. A great option is to utilize warming massage lotions for an incredibly sexy and sensual massage. If you are not certain on how to give an erotic massage, there are a couple of videos that will guide you step-by-step on how to perform one. Edible powders are available in the market for you to apply on your partner using a feather. Dust the powder all over your partner’s body and then gently lick it off.
Add a small vibrator that you can use externally
An excellent way to start is to use a bullet or any egg-shaped vibrator that you can fit in the palm of your hands. When utilizing this toy ensure that you target highly erogenous areas of the body and pleasure each other to the maximum. A wireless bullet is a great device to put in the palm of your hands and caress your partner’s testicles. It is also good to massage your partner’s labia.
Look at adding other toys
After experimenting with the less intimidating toys, it is time to turn it up a notch. There are toys that are meant to be used in the vagina and anally. There are toys designed to stimulate the penis through inserting it through a silicone sleeve or pumping action. There are also toys you can utilize to introduce some form of minimum bondage and fetish action to your sex life. If you are not sure on how to go about adding this toys to your relationship you can make use of educational videos or consult a sex educator.